Not your average smoke in mirrors...
Lessons in life are acquired through just living and I title today's blog... "When people show you their true selves, believe them..."
No one, including myself, wants to admit fault when choosing an asshole for a friend, date, love interest or whatever. The main objective is to eliminate these specific individuals out of your life, and to clear your mind of the bad decision that you have made... Simple enough, but what happens when the asshole doesn't want to be removed... A gun, right? LOL so many times this has happen and I tend to ask myself the same question, "Why me?"...
The first lesson I have taught myself, is to watch for the warning signs of randomness that we all posses, however, these crazies usually tell on themselves with their actions... Contradictions are key... especially when the person themselves has a pet peeve about something that they do habitually...lol
I am not perfect by the stretch of the imagination, but I do strive to correct those "changeable" faults in my life that has crept its ugly head in my repertoire of emotions. What I don't understand is why do individuals go out of their way to throw someone else's life out of balance?.... It baffles me, especially when we have no ties to each other. It's like the blind date that just keeps getting worse as the night progresses... There is no means to an end...you just want an end.
A motto that I have learned to stick with is when people show you their true selves...believe them. Don't try and prove them wrong, nor do you try and make sense of a senseless creature. Take it as a blessing from God and keep it moving... So many times have I ALLOWED the wrong people in my life, not because they were deserving of being here, but because I wanted so dearly to believe that this person possessed some level of good...wrong!
I've also been consumed with the why's and how's of the world, which is just as bad when dealing with con-artist. They have no method to their madness sometimes, just getting over on people is just enough to satisfy their false sense of reality. It's laughable now, but it takes you to experience the Talented Mr.or Ms. Ripley to understand this subject matter...
True colors shine through and through and it's those little idiosyncrasies that drive us crazy about people...good and bad. If you are an asshole, I'm sure there is a pool of sharks out there for you... If you are shy and reserve, I'm sure their is a support group for you as well... If you love to eat, why not??? Your date isn't bothered with seconds, so why are you?...lol So simple yet it's the story of our lives...
At the end of the day, and it seems like another "love yourself" blog, but it is... A huge percentage of our problems come from a hidden agenda.There is no sense in hiding that you are a thief, when you steal tips from a waitress and then preach a sermon about temptation on Sunday... Or even better there is no sense in acting as if you aren't dramatic/a gossip/nosey when you know all the latest gossip and you seem to have no dealings with these people whom you discuss... I'm being extreme, but I'm sure you can follow where I am going with this...
No one, including myself, wants to admit fault when choosing an asshole for a friend, date, love interest or whatever. The main objective is to eliminate these specific individuals out of your life, and to clear your mind of the bad decision that you have made... Simple enough, but what happens when the asshole doesn't want to be removed... A gun, right? LOL so many times this has happen and I tend to ask myself the same question, "Why me?"...
The first lesson I have taught myself, is to watch for the warning signs of randomness that we all posses, however, these crazies usually tell on themselves with their actions... Contradictions are key... especially when the person themselves has a pet peeve about something that they do habitually...lol
I am not perfect by the stretch of the imagination, but I do strive to correct those "changeable" faults in my life that has crept its ugly head in my repertoire of emotions. What I don't understand is why do individuals go out of their way to throw someone else's life out of balance?.... It baffles me, especially when we have no ties to each other. It's like the blind date that just keeps getting worse as the night progresses... There is no means to an end...you just want an end.
A motto that I have learned to stick with is when people show you their true selves...believe them. Don't try and prove them wrong, nor do you try and make sense of a senseless creature. Take it as a blessing from God and keep it moving... So many times have I ALLOWED the wrong people in my life, not because they were deserving of being here, but because I wanted so dearly to believe that this person possessed some level of good...wrong!
I've also been consumed with the why's and how's of the world, which is just as bad when dealing with con-artist. They have no method to their madness sometimes, just getting over on people is just enough to satisfy their false sense of reality. It's laughable now, but it takes you to experience the Talented Mr.or Ms. Ripley to understand this subject matter...
True colors shine through and through and it's those little idiosyncrasies that drive us crazy about people...good and bad. If you are an asshole, I'm sure there is a pool of sharks out there for you... If you are shy and reserve, I'm sure their is a support group for you as well... If you love to eat, why not??? Your date isn't bothered with seconds, so why are you?...lol So simple yet it's the story of our lives...
At the end of the day, and it seems like another "love yourself" blog, but it is... A huge percentage of our problems come from a hidden agenda.There is no sense in hiding that you are a thief, when you steal tips from a waitress and then preach a sermon about temptation on Sunday... Or even better there is no sense in acting as if you aren't dramatic/a gossip/nosey when you know all the latest gossip and you seem to have no dealings with these people whom you discuss... I'm being extreme, but I'm sure you can follow where I am going with this...
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